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Another Date, Another Frustration
Dec. 13th, 2015 05:27 pmSo I decided to see the guy I'm dating (kendo/Cowboy Bebop Dude) at least one last time before he left to see his family for Christmas Break.
I had it all settled. I put a time aside for him in between all my finals studying. He came over to my place, I gave him his Christmas present, I sat him down in an armchair before the TV with a mug of warm apple cider, and I let him pick any movie out of all the movies I owned for us to watch. I made plenty of commentary throughout the movie, though always in between important scenes, and I made sure there were lots of opinions so he could jump into the conversation and offer his own thoughts.
I had it all perfect.
Three things:
1) When I went to Google search something about the movie, he looked at my computer screen and commented on it. Which is creepy.
2) He moved a remote from the arm of my chair so he could leave his arm there, very suggestively and deliberately.
3) At the end of the date, he asked if there was a specific time frame for when we could be physically intimate again.
What the hell was he expecting me to say? "Yes, in three months, two days, and eleven hours I will feel comfortable with you and trust you." And you know what? I'll NEVER feel comfortable with him and trust him if he keeps pushing this!
AARRGGHH!
I had it all settled. I put a time aside for him in between all my finals studying. He came over to my place, I gave him his Christmas present, I sat him down in an armchair before the TV with a mug of warm apple cider, and I let him pick any movie out of all the movies I owned for us to watch. I made plenty of commentary throughout the movie, though always in between important scenes, and I made sure there were lots of opinions so he could jump into the conversation and offer his own thoughts.
I had it all perfect.
Three things:
1) When I went to Google search something about the movie, he looked at my computer screen and commented on it. Which is creepy.
2) He moved a remote from the arm of my chair so he could leave his arm there, very suggestively and deliberately.
3) At the end of the date, he asked if there was a specific time frame for when we could be physically intimate again.
What the hell was he expecting me to say? "Yes, in three months, two days, and eleven hours I will feel comfortable with you and trust you." And you know what? I'll NEVER feel comfortable with him and trust him if he keeps pushing this!
AARRGGHH!
